Meeting Women: Surefire Spots To Get Dates

The first thing I want to do immediately is to give you a CONCRETE, STEP BY STEP PLAN that you can immediately use to go out right now and start meeting more women.

Now, most guys have it all wrong when it comes to meeting women.. Let me clear up the confusion with 2 "Wisdom Nuggets":

WISDOM NUGGET #1: Most normal guys UNDER-ESTIMATE how many women they need to SEE and MEET in order to develop their approach skills. And it doesn't matter if your goal is to find that one perfect woman. In order to meet her when you finally have a chance, you need good approach skills.

WISDOM NUGGET #2: If you're not SEEING women (if they don't come into your field of vision), then you're not MEETING women. So this is a critical first step. The more women you see, the more opportunities you'll have to develop and refine your approach skills, get dates, etc.

The first step to seeing and meeting more women is going where there are plenty of them. Duh.

So I'm going to give you 3 of my favorite places to meet women:

1) SHOPPING MALLS

Ah, shopping malls. Such a terrible place to meet women. I mean, look around, there's only like 9 or 10 women for every 1 man walking around the place. Lol ...

Yes, there are tons of hot women working AND shopping there.

Women flock to shopping malls like plastic surgeons flock to Michael Jackson's mansion.

2) RESTAURANTS

The idea with restaurants is that if you're going to eat out you might as well do it in a "Target Rich Environment" (a place with lots of women). You can turn just your average lunch into an opportunity to walk home with several numbers of interesting females.

And if you look around you will start to find many restaurants in your area that consistently have quite a few women eating (and working) there.

Larger restaurants obviously have more people and so more women than smaller ones, so eat there.

And when you're being seated by the hostess, see if she can seat you in a place where you can have a good view of the female traffic going in and out, so when a woman that interests you enters you'll have easy access to do your approach.

So far nothing new, right? Pretty common sense.

Well here's something I bet you don't normally do:

Find a restaurant where there's a lot of walking traffic RIGHT OUTSIDE. Grab a table where you can see all these people walking by. If there's a patio, that's perfect.

When you see a hottie walk by, leave your food and approach her.

This is quite a ROMANTIC move, because you can HONESTLY say,

"Excuse me. Hi. I don't know exactly how to say this, but I was right in the middle of my lunch, and I saw you walking and had to tell you you are absolutely ... beautiful."

What this does is it puts you in a position where 1) you are being 100% HONEST when you say this (so it's not a "line") and

2) it's a NATURALLY ROMANTIC move to make.

(By the way, if you combine these first 2 places to meet women what you get is: restaurants in shopping malls where you can see the foot traffic walk by. Excellent.)

3) CONCERTS, FAIRS, AND OTHER COMMUNITY EVENTS

These are all great places to meet women because every woman there is out to have a good time. They're not in a rush to get to work or some other place, so it's not like you're approach is interrupting them from anything important.

This makes it just that much easier for them to be open to having a random conversation with a guy who has his act together.

(Oh, by the way, that guy is YOU in case you haven't figured it out yet).

***TIMING IS CRITICAL***

You visit your favorite restaurant on Tuesday at lunch. But because it's not crowded at that time, there's not even a single hottie. The same restaurant on Friday evenings at 7 pm is full of pretty women.

You go to the mall at 6 pm on a Tuesday and it's a desert. That same mall at 2 pm on a Saturday is an oasis full of hot women.

So if you visit a Target Rich Environment but there's not many beautiful women there, ask yourself if your timing is off.

Here's a secret: Ask people who would know when the most crowded time is. At a shopping mall, restaurant, or grocery store you could ask any of the employees. They would know. Just ask them, "When is this place the busiest, anyways?"

Or to save even more time, you can always CALL AHEAD to a new place you want to check out, and ask someone over the phone when's the busiest time. You'll be surprised how much info some people will give you.

Now, some of you are thinking, "Man, I already know this stuff."

Maybe you do.

But are you DOING it?

Here's an easy way to tell:

Have you approached 5 or more women in the last 7 days?

Seriously. Think about it.

Have you?

If not, then although you "know" this stuff, you're not DOING it.

That's the trap that most "normal" guys fall into. They sit back and criticize, but if you look at what they're DOING it's clear they're not taking enough ACTION to ever get their skills to a level where they'll have the success with women they're looking for.

A success that some of you right now believe is impossible ...

Well, it's not impossible ... IF YOU DO THE WORK.

So, here's your HOMEWORK ASSIGNMENT:

Go out in the next 48 hours and visit at least 2 Target Rich Environments. Could be a mall. Could be a restaurant. Could be another place you thought of on your own where there's likely to be ladies present.

And all I want you to do is 1 thing:

1) COUNT how many pretty women you see in the next 48 hours. This includes those you see at the Target Rich Environments AND any other women you see anywhere, like on the street, in stores, supermarkets, wherever.

So 48 hours from now, if you're Bill from Illinois, Gary from Australia, or whoever from wherever, you'll be able to say, "Kev, I was able to see 17 hot women in the last 48 hours" or whatever number it may be.

It'll be a little competition ... WHO CAN SEE THE MOST HOT WOMEN IN THE NEXT 48 HOURS ...

So do yourself a favor and do your homework. It's basically checking out pretty women ... how much better can a homework assignment get???!!!

Your Dating Coach,

Kevin B.

Oh, and by the way, if you want the FULL SCOOP of where you can meet pretty women (there are over 15 more locations I left out of this email, as well as great strategies for meeting women online and at speed dating events), then you should check out my Breakthrough Dating Audio CD Program.

In it you'll also find specifically what to say to women (and how to say it) when you visit these places so you come across as a mature guy who has his act together, rather than a nervous wuss or a creep or a guy who's just trying too hard.

Plus, it's fully guaranteed to help you or your money back, and if you have a credit card you can even try it for 30 days for just a buck.

Check it out here: http://www.anywomananywher e.com/offerlist.htm

And if you're one of the few who STILL haven't downloaded my eBook "Any Woman, Anywhere" you need to go to do that right now.

It's a great introduction to the principles I teach...you can be reading it in just 3 minutes from right now.

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