Do Men Want Classy Women?

Ladies, this one is for you. Your mother always told you "Don't give away the farm." Yet men have been saying, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" It's a paradox; women think they need to put out, or they'll lose their man. Men don't want a woman who puts out; at least not long term they don't. Are you the type of woman who men take home to bed; or the type who men take home to meet Mom?

One man described it this way, "When I'm talking to a woman, either on-line, on the phone, or in person, who do you think is the first person to bring up sex? Usually it's the woman. I don't. I can tell almost instantly if the woman is classy or cheap. I want a woman who is confident, not insecure and thinks she needs to attract me by offering up free sex. What healthy, heterosexual man doesn't want or enjoy sex with a woman? But I don't want someone that everyone else has enjoyed. A classy woman is intriguing, mysterious and alluring. Her appearance and the way she carries herself can be very appealing. There's a huge difference between sexy and sleazy; and unfortunately many woman don't know the difference."

Ladies wise up! If you don't understand why you keep attracting the wrong men, it's because your standards are too low. Set the bar higher. Do not engage in innuendos or blatant conversation that is sexual in nature. You may think you are flirting; but what you are doing is sending a signal to the man that you're easy. You may hook him for a time. You may both be filled with infatuation, but it won't last. Men will look at you as the good time gal; not as a keeper.

What are you wearing? Low rise jeans and tummy shirts are in. They're not in if you don't have the body to wear that style of clothing and they're not in if you're trying to convince the men that you're a classy lady. That is not to say you need to haul out the turtle neck sweaters and long skirts which cover up your ankles.

You won't change your belief system overnight; your views on what men want. But what you can change almost instantly is how you dress and how you talk. Decide today that you will not openly discuss sex or make comments of a sexual nature with men. There are ways you can let someone know you're interested without sounding like a hootchie mamma. And lastly, take inventory of your wardrobe. Leave a little to the imagination, don't show it all.

Men want a classy woman.

Paul is the Webmaster of Relationship Advice , The Agony Aunt team will help you with any problems, Financial, Health or Relationship issues.

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