Dating Advice for Men: Why Some Women Like Em Younger

Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher. Madonna and Guy Ritchie. Your old high school English teacher and... your best buddy?! Hey, it could happen. These days, if an older woman wants a baby, she can have one.

There will always be the Traditional Tina, scoping out an older fella who's "on her maturity level" as she likes to think- and who's willing to play provider. But what of the ever-growing population of footloose women with their crazy cradle-robbing ways? Is this another Maggie May, who, as Rod Stewart tells it, will "wreck your bed, and in the morning kick you in the head?" Or is she some lonely desperado, hoping to latch on to a kinder, gentler generation of men? Here are some insights as to why some women prefer to date younger guys.

Not every girl wants a father figure. Often, a man who's older than you assumes a protective and paternal role; and to many women, this is a real turn-off. Why? Well, for starters, we already have a daddy! Not to mention, the woman who holds a high-paying exec job Monday through Friday may have some trouble playing Helpless Heather on the weekends. She's used to taking care of herself, speaking on her own behalf, and yes, even paying her own way without the help of Daddy Warbucks.

Younger men are often better in bed. Ahh, the cruel irony of life. Remember sex with your college girlfriend? That 21-year-old 'fraidy cat is now a tigress of temptation. Something funny happens to women as they age. Their testosterone levels increase; oddly enough, around the same time that men's are plummeting. The hormone surge gives ladies a libido lift, which is why women in their 30s and 40s just want to get busy. Meanwhile, our same-age male counterparts are busy studying the inside of their eyelids. Need I say more?

Younger guys look up to an older, successful woman. Let's talk about those corporate power babes again. Sometimes, it's lonely at the top... but not when there's a starry-eyed cutie-pie smiling up at you! There's something to be said for having a younger guy who admires you for your accomplishments. It makes you feel great, and the sad fact is, you can't always get that kind of respect from an older man. Baby Boomers may love Donna Reed, but guys born later can understand and better appreciate women who go after their dreams.

The metrosexual male is our cup of tea. Nothing like having your boy over for some afternoon delight and finding out he borrowed your loofah in the shower. The New Generation of open-minded guys is A-OK in our book! This guy can whip up a Thai stir-fry using organic ingredients, grooms his fingernails and his toenails, is politically-correct to a fault, and won't eat Starkist if it might harm the baby dolphins. To the 40-something who grew up with Archie Bunker, he's a breath of fresh air.

Girls just want to have fun. Some of us are downright immature, and we're not afraid to say it! Perhaps "young at heart" is the better term, but the point is this: some old gals really do just want to have fun. Lots of broads who are pushing fifty still rock out at concerts, drive 70 mph with the top down, stay out all night, flip people off when necessary, and generally wreak havoc. That's not to say we can't find a man of ANY age to engage in juvenile antics with us... but, well, the younger ones just seem more willing to join in the fun.

Some women are late bloomers. Embarrassing as it may be, plenty of chicks spend the better part of their 20s mired in self-doubt and confusion. Instead of kicking back like they should have, the rainclouds of pessimism hung around to dampen their fun and turn them into neurotic freaks. Ten years later, some of those very same basketcases have mellowed into chill ladies who are just now ready to embrace life to the fullest. If this involves cavorting with young fellas in ways they never thought possible, all the better! Better late than never, right girls?

Guys in their prime are ohhhh, so fine. If you had to choose between a thick, juicy steak and some shriveled up beef jerky, which one would you pick? In the same way that men can't help looking at supple young girls, we ladies find ourselves drawn to guys under thirty. Younger men have tight bodies, bright eyes, great smiles, and usually a crowd of buddies to keep them laughing and pumped for excitement. What's the alternative? The balding bachelor with a beer gut who sits home smoking stogies and listening to Springsteen's Glory Days on repeat mode? No, thanks!

In all seriousness, it shouldn't matter the age of two people who mutually respect and enjoy each other's company. We love who we love, not matter what their age or what they look like. If an older woman and a younger man feel comfortable having a relationship, then no one has the right to criticize them. To the lady who simply likes a quick fling with a hot young stallion? Here's to you, Mrs. Robinson.

Copyright 2005 Dina Giolitto. All rights reserved.

Dina Giolitto is a New-Jersey based Copywriting Consultant with nine years' industry experience. Her current focus is web content and web marketing for a multitude of products and services although the bulk of her experience lies in retail for big-name companies like Toys"R"Us. Visit http://www.wordfeeder.com for rates and samples.

Online Dating

The online dating world today can be a confusing place to be. As more people... Read More

Dating Tips: The First Impression Matters

Ever had a love at first sight encounter? Totally captured by her beauty the first... Read More

Dating After Divorce: Things To Think About Regarding Dating After Divorce

Dating after divorce is a much debated topic due to the psychological and emotional impact... Read More

Dating Advice for Those Just Getting Back on the Dating Wagon!

Dating is a daunting prospect, especially for those who've been off the circuit for a... Read More

Hooking Up vs. Lasting Love: Its Your Choice

"hooking Up" - "friends with benefits" - "booty call"These terms have become all too familiar... Read More

First Date ? Tips for Women

You are on your way to your first date with him. Probably a blind date.... Read More

First Date ? Tips for Men

You are on your way to your first date with her. Probably a blind date.... Read More

10 Reasons to Use Online Dating Sites

There are many more reasons than just ten that I would like to mention, but... Read More

Dating Tips For Animal Lovers!

Did you know that experts say the way people treat their pets is indicative of... Read More

Find Reputable Internet Dating Services That Want To Earn Your Trust

Internet dating services are popping up online like dandelions in the spring, and sometimes for... Read More

From Friend To Boyfriend

One of the most frequent questions I am asked is "How do I go from... Read More

Overcoming Your Nervousness About Talking to Women

Standing at the magazine rack thumbing through Cosmo, she has the most gorgeous face you've... Read More

Online Dating Safety Tips

Online dating is as safe, and in some ways safer than meeting people offline. Online... Read More

Great Dating Advice: 7 Universal Laws for Singles

The Law of the Right PersonWhile most of us put our focus on finding the... Read More

Asian Dating - Respect and Honour

Honour and respect are two of the most important elements in Asian culture, and they... Read More

Dating Mistakes

Are you dating or in a serious relationship? Did you realize that very often we... Read More

Dating Opportunities Are More Abundant Than Ever Before

Dating, there are many thoughts that word brings about. Many of us have had both... Read More

How To Make Date Conversation

What do you talk about on a date? Is it okay to just listen and... Read More

Online Dating Tips For Success

So the search for the perfect relationship is tuff. You have tried the grocery market,... Read More

Funnel Your Way to Love

I call it "The Funnel." And it's the best way to view your online dating... Read More

Online Dating - 8 Sizzling Tips To Make Your Profile Standout!

We know one of the hardest part of creating your profile is describing yourself to... Read More

10 Important, Easy Dating Rules to Ensure Your Success

1) Leave the mobile phone off! Do not answer it if it is on Silent... Read More

Online Dating: 4 Dating Mistakes You Must Avoid

Did you catch the dating mistakes made during episode one of ABC's Hooking Up documentary... Read More

Dating Dilemma: The Man Who Said Hed Call and Didnt

You went out with the guy. You both had a great time (or at least... Read More

Creating a Great Online Dating Profile

First impressions are important, which is why it is essential to create an appealing, but... Read More

How To Have A Successful Conversation With Any Woman!

To have a successful conversation with any woman you must know what to say, and... Read More

Adult Personals ? Fulfilling Your Fantasies Through Adult Dating Websites

People are talking about adult personals. There's no doubt about it. As regular dating sites... Read More

CyberCheapskates and Net Gold Diggers

Did you know that Match.com has around twelve million members, but only a million or... Read More

Change Your Body Language to Be Relaxed When Approaching Somebody New

Get a Girl To Seduce You By Changing Your Body Language.Your attitude and confidence are... Read More

How to Find the Background of Your Online Date

The popularity of online dating has increased dramatically over the past few years. While most... Read More

A Real Man

Something I find 100% humor in is the fact that men are so quick to... Read More

The Perfect Person

"When you truly look for me, You will find me." KabirWe all want love. Then,... Read More

5 Mistakes Men Make On The First Date

The number one mistake made by men on the first date is trying to buy... Read More

How to Tell if a Single Woman is Really Interested in You

It's very important to learn how a single woman acts, speaks, and uses body language... Read More

Online Dating - Is Music the Food of Love?

"If music be the food of love, play on". So said William Shakespeare in one... Read More

The Five Worst Date Places

Food in teeth, nausea, childhood stories and exposing your pot belly are all things you... Read More

The First Impression is a Lasting Impression

The first date is the most apprehensive, nerve wreaking event in the beginning of any... Read More

1 Step You Should Take to Alleviate Anxiety When Meeting Women

Has a similar scenario like this one ever happened to you before?You've met a pretty... Read More

Quality Adult Personals

Quality adult personals are becoming harder to find these days. The recent growth in the... Read More

Choosing an Online Dating Service

The task of choosing the best dating site to join can seem daunting at first... Read More

How To Repel The Opposite Sex

There is a war between the sexes. This war is based on a misunderstanding. The... Read More

You Dont Have To Be A Genius To Write A Love Poem

Love poems are a wonderfully romantic gesture and can often express your thoughts far more... Read More

Meeting Other Singles By Doing Something You Love

Meet Other Singles by Doing Something You LoveHere's one the best ways I have found... Read More

Online Dating 101 - Online Dating Basics

Online Dating 101 by Kevin KogerFeeling like there's something that's just not quite there yet... Read More

Online Dating Beginners Quiz

Free dating online-you've heard about it, you've read about it, maybe you even have a... Read More

Friday Night Fitness Dates

Close your eyes and imagine this romantic setting: an intimate picnic on the beach, you... Read More

How To Have Sex On A First Date

Guys have all different motives for trying to be successful with women. Personally, I love... Read More

Why Not Average Joe: Exploring Melanas Choice

Admit it. You snickered, rolled your eyes and laughed out loud as the group of... Read More

Why I Prefer Online Dating

The next most likely place to meet your match is the place where you regularly... Read More

Table For Two Please!

I recently heard a woman say that she would not date a short man. She... Read More